College often involves students leaving the proverbial nest for the first time. It’s a transitional period of finding one’s identity while pursuing dreams. Social interactions and entertainment are a critical part of this process.
This isn’t a promotion of drinking, since these activities often involve such things as watching television or movies, going to a pizza joint, playing games or just hanging out. Blowing off steam can take on a myriad of forms. As long as it doesn’t adversely affect other people or have any negative, long-term ramifications, then have fun.
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College often involves students leaving the proverbial nest for the first time. It’s a transitional period of finding one’s identity while pursuing dreams. Social interactions and entertainment are a critical part of this process.
This isn’t a promotion of drinking, since these activities often involve such things as watching television or movies, going to a pizza joint, playing games or just hanging out. Blowing off steam can take on a myriad of forms. As long as it doesn’t adversely affect other people or have any negative, long-term ramifications, then have fun.
The erroneous argument that working hard for four years in college will allow one to play for the rest of their life should be tempered with reality. All work and no play is a recipe for burnout and social awkwardness, both of which are often the death knell to one’s long-term career objectives, not to mention short-term mental health.
A degree doesn’t guarantee a career. I know a few people with chemical engineering degrees, none of which is working in his or her chosen field. Some degrees lose luster over time. If a chemical engineer doesn’t find gainful employment shortly after graduation, panic tends to set in. The degree holder knows the degree has an expiration date.
Likewise, most teachers will disagree with the belief that their jobs are easy, unless working 50 to 60 hours a week coddling irresponsible brats is fun.
Education is the cornerstone of a quality life. I concur completely with the concept that hard work builds character. That doesn’t mean that one should shy away from having a good time, but rather keep moderation in mind when engaging in fun. I don’t agree that people should indulge in recreational activities to the detriment of their studies and wellbeing, unless we’re talking about coffee. I sadly admit that imbibing cups of liquid shadow imbued with the subtle tinge of caffeine and overflowing with steam is one of my most treasured sordid pleasures.
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